Category Archives: Family and Relationships

I Decided to Stop Yelling for 100 Days & Here’s What Happened — Part 3: How Did We Get Here?

This is the third post in a series about why and how I gave up yelling at my kids — for good. Read Part 1: The Meltdown and Part 2: The Plan. Here’s what’s really wild about this whole yelling thing: I’m actually a really good mom. By all accounts, I’m a great mom. Even when I was yelling, my kids would… Read more »

I Decided to Stop Yelling for 100 Days & Here’s What Happened — Part 2: The Plan

This is the second post in a series about why and how I gave up yelling at my kids — for good. Read Part 1: The Meltdown.   I knew that if I was going to make good on my promise to my child — which I had clarified as “Never yell at you again because no one should ever talk… Read more »

I Decided to Stop Yelling for 100 Days & Here’s What Happened — Part 1: The Meltdown

On July 9, 2017, I lost. my. shit. on one of my 5-year-olds. It wasn’t just a momentary lapse. It was a solid hour of us screaming at each other. A grown adult, having an hour-long screaming match with a 5-year-old. And I was going to win. As I watched him lose the will to fight back, I had a… Read more »

Apparently I Have No Idea How Playdates Work

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Over Thanksgiving break 2017 we had four playdates in three days. I’d like to be acknowledged for surviving this terrible idea. I’ll wait. … Okay, great. Thanks for that. And in the course of this three-day nightmare, I discovered that I know literally nothing about playdates. The only ones we have ever had before were when I wanted to drink… Read more »

How a Card Game Transformed My Family in a Matter of Minutes

When I decided to back the Generation Mindful Kickstarter campaign for PeaceMakers, I had no idea that this choice would change the course of my family in an instant. This might sound like hyperbole, but I’m being completely serious. This card game has been life-changing. Let me explain. The essential premise of PeaceMakers is that connection is more effective than punishment — and for children to… Read more »