Status Report: 1 Month After Bark Busters

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Things have been crazy around my house lately, as I’m sure you’ve guessed based on my posts from the month of December, but the madness is finally under control. Tomorrow is one month from our Bark Busters appointment, and the dogs have done almost a complete 180.

When David the Dog guy came, we put Pickles and Ty outside and left Murphy in with us. David just talked with us about our wishlist (which filled an entire notebook page and included such items as, "No more fighting, No more treat aggression, Come when called, No means no, etc…") and observed Murphy’s defiant behavior before getting into it.

When we started working on the techniques, Murphy responded immediately. We did an exercise to teach him not to charge the front door, and when he got the stop cue Murphy hit the brakes so hard that his butt slid around and he fell flat on his face. It was like he stood on the brake pedal at 70 miles per hour. "Wow," David said, "He got that really fast. That’s exactly what we want. Well, except for falling down. But that was good."

Every exercise we did, Murphy figured it out on the first try. He was a model student. Pickles and Ty, however, we somewhat more of a challenge. Ty just kind of stared at us, and Pickles was scared of the noisemaker we used to get the dogs’ attention when they wouldn’t listen or disobeyed a command, so every time we used it, she hid under something. (We’ve been assured that that’s normal, especially since she’s the dog who, despite being the smallest, actually had the most numerous dominance issues. She was sulking.)

Now, after a month of practicing commands and leadership and new boundaries and rules, we have 3 completely different dogs. We’ve had only two incidents with Murphy attacking Ty, both minor and quick to break up, and all three dogs are now back to sleeping in our room. The three and a half weeks we kept them separated were the worst three and a half weeks of my adult life. Pickles, who hadn’t been a night out of my bed since we brought her home except for two short vacations, had to sleep in the guest room with Ty, who never did anything wrong in the first place. I cried almost every night when I closed them in there, and Jesse and I started affectionately referring to Murphy as "the life-ruiner."

But we all stuck it out, and it’s been worth it. There’s still a lot of work to do, but now at least we have some tools to help us, and an expert resource to call on whenever we have a problem.

My verdict? Hiring Bark Busters was the best thing I have ever done for my animals, and the best money I have spent in a long time. If you’re willing to put your dog’s needs first and make changes in your behavior, I think it’s 100% worthwhile. But if you don’t want to put in the work, you’ll be wasting your time and your money.

Have you used Bark Busters? Share your experience (and, please, your location, so others in your area have a sense of the Bark Busters contingency in your region). Leave a comment.

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The Dogs’ Fighting Has Reached Critical Mass

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The Dog Fighting Has Reached Critical MassThe dogs are now going at it almost every day, with Murphy instigating every time, and I can’t take it anymore! We called Bark Busters about 2 weeks ago and are in the midst of checking references for our local BarkBusters pro, but after this morning, I don’t even care anymore. I need help NOW.

It’s gotten so that almost every mealtime is a fight, every toy is a fight, every treat is a fight. Murphy is NOT a mean dog, so I just don’t understand what is happening to him! It’s at the point that I am just resigned to needing stitches in the near future because I have to break them up so frequently. I have started wearing a referee’s whistle around my neck to blow when they start going at it, because that startles Murphy enough that he pauses momentarily and I can get between them and pull him out.

I called “Dave” the dog guy today and left what I feel is an embarassingly desperate plea for his first available appointment in January. Cost be damned, I will not live like this anymore, and putting this dog down or giving him away is not an option. I know it can be fixed — I just don’t know how to do it.

And I still can’t understand how sometimes, like in this picture, they can be the best of friends and the others Murphy is intent on ripping Ty’s face off. It makes no sense. I’m at a loss.

Mastiff Mayhem — Murphy’s Increasing Aggression: Is it Just a Stage?

Aggression Problems in Older PuppiesEver since we got back from our trip to Florida, Murphy, sweet-natured, submissive Murphy, has been, for lack of a better term, a total jerk. I don’t know if it’s the stress of our traveling a lot in November, if we’re doing something to make him aggressive, or if he’s just going through some adolescent rebellion or something, but it’s getting old fast.

Last weekend, he attacked Ty. He has been extremely food aggressive and keeps running over during mealtimes and knocking Ty out of the way to eat his food. Yesterday when I tried to drag him away, he made two snarling attempts to bite me. And that, as far as I’m concerned, is completely unacceptable. I put him down and made him submit, a la Cesar Milan, but he still kept lunging at me.

After the fight on Saturday, I’ve been a little nervous, and I’m sure that’s making it worse. But yesterday I wasn’t scared — I was pissed. And then he did the same thing again when a friend stopped by, jumping at the door like he was going to go through it. When I pulled him back, he snapped at me again and I finally just put him in the bathroom until she left because I couldn’t handle it. I know that’s bad, but I didn’t know what else to do!

I think we’re going to have to bring in the Bark Busters, because he is already way too big to be an aggressive dog, and if this keeps up when he’s full grown, I can see someone wanting us to put him down, like if he goes after someone else’s dog the same way he went after Ty.

Has your dog had aggression problems? How did you handle it? Leave a comment.

Cats and Q-Tip Addiction

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Strange Pet HabitsI don’t know where Julius picked up this habit, but he seems to be totally hooked on Q-Tips. And I don’t mean just any generic cotton swab, though I’m sure he’d love those, too, but the real Q-Tips, which cost twice as much as the other brands. Granted it’s a minor expense, but when Julius pulls several dozen a day out of the container and strews them around the bathroom so they’re unusable, the cost per unit increases rather dramatically.

Jesse pointed out that Isabel used to do this, but I have no memory of that… What weird habits does your cat have? Leave a comment!

My Cat Is Disgusting – Or Why We Need Another Baby Gate

When I left the bedroom this morning, I didn’t realize that I locked Zoe in. I discovered it just now when I went in to take a shower (I’m running a little behind today, so sue me) and found that Zoe crapped on my bed. Except I didn’t find it. I smelled it and first checked the bathtub, because that’s where she usually goes when she can’t get out of the bedroom, and then the shower. I couldn’t find it anywhere.

And then I heard Murphy eating something.

Yeah, you guessed it: The cat crap on my bed. Awesome. So now I have to shower in a bedroom suite that smells like poo. And did I mention the fact that thanks to Murphy’s slobbering and spreading the poo around there is now a GIANT poo stain in my down comforter as well as the duvet cover?

I love my pets, truly I do, but sometimes I want to give them to the traveling circus.